The Future Of Love And Marriage Corporation Australia Government & The Family Unit.
Is there a future and any Value or Purpose for Marriage in this Post Modern world ?
Many people enter into marriage for various reasons, some for love, some for money, some for entry into another country.
Unfortunately most marriages will end in divorce. Many enter into marriage, however statistically 75 % of women will divorce and leave their husbands within 7 years. Sad but statistically true.
If children are involved, this family relationship break up has an emotional scar on them, and many divorced men fall into the depts of depression.
However as stated in much earlier post. From a biblical stand point, people should not get married.
There is a few reasons for this. One being too many people who get married are too self absorbed and self centered that they are not truly capable of loving and being truly devoted to the other person.
If for any reason that you are not willing to devote your entire life to the person you are about to marry, to put them first and foremost, if your not willing to put their needs above that of your own, if your not willing or mentally prepared to devote your entire life to that person, to stand up and defend them at all times to all others, to back that person and give your full energies to them and to help and encourage and support them in whatever they put their hearts desire to in all things, even to the extent of willing to give your life to and for such a person, willing to lay your life down for them, and if that person is not willing to likewise do the same for you, then that is NOT the person that you should marry.
If you truly love the person you should be willing to go to the ends of the world and back for them, to help and support them in any way you can in whatever endeavours they may take. And to put their desires and will above that of your own.
Some examples maybe like, and this is a fictional example to express a point. Lets say you met someone, and you like them, very much lets say that they love oranges very much – but they do not like apples at all, yet you love apples and do not like oranges one little bit.
If you were to show your love to them, you could very well be an apple expert knowing all the different types of apples and know how to prepare all different types of apple dish’s both cooked and raw with incredible flavours. and you wanted to show and express your love to this person, giving them anything apples would be your selfish way to give them something you like because you like apples. You may make it with great flavours and textures etc, but alas its still apple, your own selfish desire for apples because YOU like them, apples are what YOU like.
However if you truly liked and were in love with that person, you would be wanting to do things that makes them happy, and if you were truly in love with that person, every time you see oranges – you would be wanting to find and get oranges for them because you know that is what makes them happy, not you. You may not like oranges yourself, but knowing the one you love likes oranges, you would seek out and desire oranges, and every time you see oranges you would be wanting to get oranges because you know that is what makes the other person happy, and seeing them happy is what SHOULD bring you joy and happiness. Because bringing them oranges makes Them happy, and this is what you should be willing and desiring to do.
This could and should serve 2 purposes. 1) it shows that you getting them oranges ( which they like ) and not apples ( which you like ) shows that you are truly seeking to do what makes the other person happy, and seeing them happy should make you happy. Seeing their smile and their joy should be what makes you happy and full of joy. If it does not, then need to truly look into yourself – do you truly love this person and does their joy and happiness truly fulfil the desires of your heart ?
If they are sad and upset or scared or worried, does that make you sad or upset or concerned or worried ? It should, If not then need to start thinking, is this really the right person for you or not ?
2) it shows that the mere fact that their joy and happiness brings you joy and happiness, shows you care for their wellness. Does seeing their smile fill your heart with gladness ?
Does seeing them fill your heart with peace and joy and happiness ? Does seeing their face stir you up to want to do things for them to make them happy ? Do they fill with peace joy and happiness when they see you ? Do they desire to fill you with the desires of your heart ?
If yes then that’s a good sign that they might be the right person for you, and you might be the right person for you. If you both single and never married ( or widow / widower ), then you might be right for one another.
But this involves commitment. If one does not precipitate the same emotions and feelings and devotion to the other, then there is a problem, and there may be a serious sign that those 2 are not necessarily right for each other.
Lets say one person loves and is devoted to the other in all the right ways, but the other only calls them up to scold or abuse the or threaten them or lie about them. Thats a sure fire sign that this may not be right for each other. Even though one may love the other, it takes two to be mutually respecting the other.
There always should be a good line of communication with each other. Sharing with each other how the other feels, asking questions about what the other person would like or what they are feeling etc.
There should not be a spirit of fear intimidation or control with either person.
Paul wrote a very good outline of how a loving relations should be in Ephesians 5:21-33
Summarized, Wives ( future brides ) must willingly surrender and commit their entire lives and their will to their husband ( future husband )as though they are committing to God himself.
Likewise Husbands ( future groom ) must be willing to surrender and commit their entire lives and their desires to their wife ( future wife ) as though they are Yahusha devoting their entire life to humanity.
However these days due to the communist manifesto ajenda implications for australia for the past 40 to 60 years, they have totally watered down the significance of marriage institution. So much so that anyone can divorce anyone for absolutely no reason what so ever. Infact in australia it is much harder to get married than it is to get divorced and to destroy the family. Scripture says in Matthew 19:6 a married couple are now one flesh joined together by God, and what God has joined together as one in marriage, man can not separate.
However for many decades within australia occult groups have been praying for and planning for decades to destroy marriages and families within australia and especially focused on christian marriages. Anyone who is or who has formally been a member of the occult or hindu or witchcraft or satan worship etc know only too well that there is strong devotion and working within their societies to systematically destroy the christian marriages especially and to bring down the Judeo-christian world.
- It has been their focus for many decades to make it so easy and promote ways to bring divorce to destroy the christian families.
- As we have said many times in the past for decades, if you destroy the family, you destroy the community, if you destroy the community, you destroy the nation, if you strengthen the family then you build / strengthen the community, if you strengthen the community, then you build / strengthen the nation.
This is why we need to support and build and strengthen and encourage families, to build and strengthen families, in this way we strengthen the community and nation, Husbands and Wives supporting and encouraging one another, and Dad and Mum supporting and helping and encouraging their children, and create such a positive environment where the children feel safe that they can come to their Dad and Mum about anything knowing they are going to be protected and supported by them.
In this world there is so many things to distract to pull apart families. So many things enter the families to distract each other one from another and to pull the family apart. But this needs to be resisted at all cost, at all cost.
Things come in to distract, you want the latest gadgets, big fancy homes, nice holidays, good position at work. Fancy clothes and jewelry and make up and perfumes. Great social life, keep up with the Jones so to say. Want things MY WAY and self centered indulgences. Latest TV shows and programs, and latest Netflix movie or series. All distracting you or others from what is most important.
First importance is 1) Yahu
Second Importance is 2) Yahushua
Third Importance is 3) Ruach Haqodesh
Then 4) Your Husband / Wife / Dad / Mum / Children / Brother / Sister
Destroying the family destroys the moral fabric of society which builds the foundation. Destroys trust and faithfulness. Husband loving and devoting to his wife, Wife respecting and devoting to her husband. Parents caring for and providing for and protecting their children. Children respecting their parents, AND they seeing their Dad and Mum as roll models of how to respect and treat one another when they become adults and how they are to treat other people.
Morals based upon their Dad and Mum from what they have seen the and how their parents have interacted with one another.
Usually children from broken homes where their Dad and Mum divorced and separated usually grow into troubled relationships, insecure with trust and faithfulness issues, when they are older and follow similar patterns. Where as children from a family of both a Dad and a Mum where they loved and cared and supported one another, these children are usually for faithful and trusting and secure in their relationships when they are older. Lead by example. ( Usually but doesn’t always have to be the case ).
Marriage Institution instituted by our creator is under attack in recent years unlike ever before in history. Look at our world and the marriage family institution, and look how it has effected our society today. Family values and marriage institution and morals no longer exist in our society, what is right and wrong – people are just doing what pleases themselves. They no longer blush when they knowingly do wrong, and not only do they do wrong, they approve of others who do likewise.
People have multiple partners, multiple husbands and multiple wives. This aught not be so.
Remember a generation ago when parents were married with one wife and one husband for life. Where no matter where they were, they were always faithful to each other, and when they married, people married for life. one generation later, its not that case any more, even worse, they get pregnant with each other, and then kill their child,
Yet others go childless, and modern science is now growing humans in artificial wombs without a male or female body to incubate. Yet we use babies bodies that were murdered by their mothers and doctors for Vaccines and ice creams and chocolates and we think nothing of it.
- We watch and love movies such as “The Hunger Games” and “Eyes Wired Shut” which many sources in public media and alike say that movie was based literally on real life events taking place each year in secluded places, and from first hand eyewitness accounts from survivors of such things. Yet as a society we do not care and we continue to watch such movies and ignore the reality of it so as long as we get what we want when we want it.
These aught not be so. We need to restore the family unit, restore family values.
Put away all Idols and pagan traditions, and come back to Yahu. Come back to the First Love.
Come back to restoring the family, doing what is right, because it is the right thing.
Just as when Jonah preached in Nineveh. Repent of all our wickedness and turn to Yahu and seek what is true and right and just in righteousness.
We all need to Humble ourselves, Seek that what is right, Repent of our weakness and sins, Turn to do what is RIGHT in Yahu’s sight, Seek that which pleases Yahu and seek His face, and PRAY.
Too often too many people these days no longer listen or pay attention to what others say. They no longer put up or tolerate what others want to say – but just want to barate the other person and force their own ways – thoughts or ideas, regardless whether the other person was right and they themselves are wrong. People these days so void of any morals or respect and totally no regard for what is right or wrong – so much so they become totally intolerable to anything someone else may say regardless of how true and accurate that information is.
There so many people who once in a relation with someone, marry, they take pride and see their partner as an object to control and dictate to and to lie to and to belittle.
Too many relations they once married no longer look at their partner with the same fondness which drew their partner to their affection. But contra, they loose their faithfulness and become someone more dangerous. Where the once caring and loving relationship becomes a relationship of control fear lies threats and intimidation, all to have one partner exercise control and dominance over the other. To bread in the other a spirit of fear and intimidation and insecurity. Many times one partner will be second and third guessing everything they do out of fear. Knowing whichever decision or course of action they do will cause the other person to get upset or abusive or controlling. One example would be that if the abuser saw the victim using a computer, they would get scolded for using the computer, However if they were not using the computer they get scolded for not using the computer to better themselves. Or if the victim did not go to a place where the abuser was expecting them to go to, they would get a long abuse for not going, However if they did go there, then the abuser would scold them again for going there when they wanted them to go before, and would face retribution from the abuser.
The accusers story would always change and contradict and move to different accusations and different stories just to keep the victim unstable and unbalanced and under the control of the abuser. Unfortunately this manipulative abusive game is played our many many tens of thousands of times throughout the land,
The accuser-abuser who was once a wonderful kind loving supportive partner who drew the attention and affections of the other – they have turned into someone who their partner no longer recognises and instead of wanting to do anything for them and love and support them – they find themselves in a dread fear of their partner for all the abusive manipulative controlling lying threatening person which their partner had become. They now no longer want to be with them, but for necessity need to avoid and get away from such abusive personality. Satan has successfully used the abusive person to effectively manipulated and destroyed and the relations between 2 individuals.
The thief, the enemy of the people has killed and destroyed the relationship, it becomes dead. However the Son Of Man has come to restore and bring life to that which is dead, Just as in Ezekiel chapter 30 valley of dry bones and John chapter 11 with the Lazarus. Nothing is beyond too far dead for God to revive and bring alive. Like some may say, “so as long as their is breath in my lungs” there is a chance for repentance.
Majority of people will not take up the chance to repent, but being full of pride and arrogance they rather live a life of death than to die to self and allow Messiah to breath alive in them.
Do not forsake the life giver, do not take up arrogance and pride. Surrender your pride and self glory.
As in a loving relation, surrender your pride to be a servant to the other. Remember Messiah was our living example. He never lied, He never manipulated or dictated, He never gas-lighted. He never threatened. But he does call people into Repentance. majority of people hate that word, and the thought of repentance makes them furious with hate and rage and anger. Yet this was the very first thing the Messiah preached after his baptism
Matthew 4:17 From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say, Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.
Mark 1:15 And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.Romans 3:10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
Romans 3:12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Imagine how successful these 5 verses would be considered in australia considering the Israel Folau. The Messiahs words would be very hated, including the Messiah himself for saying such things.
There is 2 opposing forces, one of God while the other of the accuser / adversary. This is why it is always a spiritual battle as stated in scripture. What makes someone who is formerly a loving person into an evil corrupted person ? One is an opposing enforcing entity that is not contained to any one body anywhere, but is always about accusing and threatening etc. The other is a spirit of kindness and meekness and gentleness.
Wherever you see these 2 forces in play, one will ultimately want to force and inflict its way and will upon the other, even follow with lies and threats and accusations which usually more times than not the accuser would accuse the other of the very things that they themselves have said and done. In such times it is very important to tread careful where the serpent rules and reigns within a person.
How many times has there been someone you love and care for so much who rejected everything and anything you say or believed in, or infact would not even allow you to say anything, and you left disheartened and wish that they would only allow you to say something, and that if only they could see they are not there to argue or fight, but only want to share with them important facts, or to tell / show them that you love them, or share / seek important information, etc. Yet they refuse you and only start slandering you, and they refuse to understand your points, and you left wondering – how on earth can they not see what they are doing, or how can they not understand ? because you are not dealing with the physical being who sees logic or someone dealing with reality, but you are dealing with spiritual beings.
Sometimes these spirits control these people and block their ears, and you speaking to a devils instead of the one you care about. Examples would be as in Mark 5:9
So you need to be careful when dealing with these beings, remembering you are dealing with the spirit controlling the person, whether they are willing participant or under total control of the demons.
These are at times often represented as a snake. symbolically a demonic creature, therefore you need to be very careful around them. More times than not they usually stay that way because society and many christians do not recognize demonic possession as such, but rather just say let them be and protect them and saying that they need to accommodate all these different people and personality traits, instead of focusing on the root cause, Demonic Possession, Which even our Messiah said signs would follow His followers by signs and wonders such as casting out demons.
So that loved one who is always angry and bitter and argumentative and always looking to fight. It may very well be that they are under the influence of Demonic Entities.
How do you deal with such ? carefully. there maybe legions ( 1,000) in the person as the case of Mark 5:9 or 7 or more more terrible demons as described by the Messiah in Matthew 12:45 with the 7 worse spirits than himself enter into the person and the person is in a worse state than when they started.
How to get them out and to save a loved one who is demonically possessed ? well remember this is spiritual battle, not a physical battle. Hitting the person and yelling to them to snap out of it isn’t going to work, its spiritual. Not physical, You can say and do all you want, but you can not force someone to change their thoughts and mind against their own will, therefore its a spiritual battle, not a physical battle.
Our Messiah says, this spirit comes not come out except with pray and fasting and belief
Hard Sacrificial Love
Sometimes the hardest sign of love someone can do is nothing. How So ?
I’m sure as many have experienced, you were deeply in love with someone but they did not love or like you in return. Your love for someone maybe pure and true and genuine. The person you are so completly and totally deeply in love with actually is not in love with you at all. They may only either like you as a friend only, or they want nothing to do with you, or they may infact hate you so very much.
Your love and compassion for them although genuine and true, since they do not return the love and compassion for you as you have for them. The hardest thing to do is nothing. You may think, “I love them so very much and only want to give them the very things they love and enjoy and make them happy”. But if they do not like or want anything to do with you. Although your intentions are wholesome and pure and true, The hardest thing is loving them to not follow through with your love and devotion.
If you love them and want them to be happy – then you need to learn to let them go. This sounds backwards, but look at it this way.
Eg, Man is truly deeply in love with a beautiful woman and wants the very best for her and want to be her husband and fulfil the delights of her heart. Woman hates that very same man and everything he stands for and represents and wants absolutely nothing to do with him.
So what happens ? Love Trumps Hate. Since she hates him, and since he loves her, out of love, the man loves her so much to give her what she wants so that she is contented. This would mean he would have to live and be contented to live without her in his life for her happiness and peace.
Its like the old saying, If you love something let it go – if it comes back then it was meant to be, if it does not come back then it was never meant to be. This is terribly painful when it is the one you love. Especially when it comes to immediate family.
Loving the woman so much he – for her peace and happiness has nothing to do with her because that is what She wants. Not what he wants. But because of his great love for the woman, he leaves her and has nothing to do with her so that she can have what it is that she is wanting – by not having him in his life, although his heart would be completely broken and destroyed. Because love does not force itself on someone who hates them and / or wants nothing to do with them in that way. Just like our Messiah in Luke 9:52-56 If they are rejected, they not impose themselves on people who do not want them.
- Likewise if the woman hated the man, he would have to remove himself from her life so that she would be at peace.
- Such great love sacrifices their own desires for joy and happiness so that the other may have the joy ad happiness that they are wanting.
- Loving them from a distance, but it does not mean you can not pray for them in your own secluded place. Infact our Messiah even tells us to pray for those who hate us and spitefully use and persecute us. how much more would you pray for someone you love with all your heart ?
James 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
To Be Continued . . .
2 Chronicles 34
1 Josiah was eight years old when he began to reign, and he reigned in Jerusalem one and thirty years.
2 And he did that which was right in the sight of the Lord, and walked in the ways of David his father, and declined neither to the right hand, nor to the left.
3 For in the eighth year of his reign, while he was yet young, he began to seek after the God of David his father: and in the twelfth year he began to purge Judah and Jerusalem from the high places, and the groves, and the carved images, and the molten images.
4 And they brake down the altars of Baalim in his presence; and the images, that were on high above them, he cut down; and the groves, and the carved images, and the molten images, he brake in pieces, and made dust of them, and strowed it upon the graves of them that had sacrificed unto them.
5 And he burnt the bones of the priests upon their altars, and cleansed Judah and Jerusalem.
6 And so did he in the cities of Manasseh, and Ephraim, and Simeon, even unto Naphtali, with their mattocks round about.
7 And when he had broken down the altars and the groves, and had beaten the graven images into powder, and cut down all the idols throughout all the land of Israel, he returned to Jerusalem.
8 Now in the eighteenth year of his reign, when he had purged the land, and the house, he sent Shaphan the son of Azaliah, and Maaseiah the governor of the city, and Joah the son of Joahaz the recorder, to repair the house of the Lord his God.
9 And when they came to Hilkiah the high priest, they delivered the money that was brought into the house of God, which the Levites that kept the doors had gathered of the hand of Manasseh and Ephraim, and of all the remnant of Israel, and of all Judah and Benjamin; and they returned to Jerusalem.
10 And they put it in the hand of the workmen that had the oversight of the house of the Lord, and they gave it to the workmen that wrought in the house of the Lord, to repair and amend the house:
11 Even to the artificers and builders gave they it, to buy hewn stone, and timber for couplings, and to floor the houses which the kings of Judah had destroyed.
12 And the men did the work faithfully: and the overseers of them were Jahath and Obadiah, the Levites, of the sons of Merari; and Zechariah and Meshullam, of the sons of the Kohathites, to set it forward; and other of the Levites, all that could skill of instruments of musick.
13 Also they were over the bearers of burdens, and were overseers of all that wrought the work in any manner of service: and of the Levites there were scribes, and officers, and porters.
14 And when they brought out the money that was brought into the house of the Lord, Hilkiah the priest found a book of the law of the Lord given by Moses.
15 And Hilkiah answered and said to Shaphan the scribe, I have found the book of the law in the house of the Lord. And Hilkiah delivered the book to Shaphan.
16 And Shaphan carried the book to the king, and brought the king word back again, saying, All that was committed to thy servants, they do it.
17 And they have gathered together the money that was found in the house of the Lord, and have delivered it into the hand of the overseers, and to the hand of the workmen.
18 Then Shaphan the scribe told the king, saying, Hilkiah the priest hath given me a book. And Shaphan read it before the king.
19 And it came to pass, when the king had heard the words of the law, that he rent his clothes.
20 And the king commanded Hilkiah, and Ahikam the son of Shaphan, and Abdon the son of Micah, and Shaphan the scribe, and Asaiah a servant of the king’s, saying,
21 Go, enquire of the Lord for me, and for them that are left in Israel and in Judah, concerning the words of the book that is found: for great is the wrath of the Lord that is poured out upon us, because our fathers have not kept the word of the Lord, to do after all that is written in this book.
22 And Hilkiah, and they that the king had appointed, went to Huldah the prophetess, the wife of Shallum the son of Tikvath, the son of Hasrah, keeper of the wardrobe; (now she dwelt in Jerusalem in the college:) and they spake to her to that effect.
23 And she answered them, Thus saith the Lord God of Israel, Tell ye the man that sent you to me,
24 Thus saith the Lord, Behold, I will bring evil upon this place, and upon the inhabitants thereof, even all the curses that are written in the book which they have read before the king of Judah:
25 Because they have forsaken me, and have burned incense unto other gods, that they might provoke me to anger with all the works of their hands; therefore my wrath shall be poured out upon this place, and shall not be quenched.
26 And as for the king of Judah, who sent you to enquire of the Lord, so shall ye say unto him, Thus saith the Lord God of Israel concerning the words which thou hast heard;
27 Because thine heart was tender, and thou didst humble thyself before God, when thou heardest his words against this place, and against the inhabitants thereof, and humbledst thyself before me, and didst rend thy clothes, and weep before me; I have even heard thee also, saith the Lord.
28 Behold, I will gather thee to thy fathers, and thou shalt be gathered to thy grave in peace, neither shall thine eyes see all the evil that I will bring upon this place, and upon the inhabitants of the same. So they brought the king word again.
29 Then the king sent and gathered together all the elders of Judah and Jerusalem.
30 And the king went up into the house of the Lord, and all the men of Judah, and the inhabitants of Jerusalem, and the priests, and the Levites, and all the people, great and small: and he read in their ears all the words of the book of the covenant that was found in the house of the Lord.
31 And the king stood in his place, and made a covenant before the Lord, to walk after the Lord, and to keep his commandments, and his testimonies, and his statutes, with all his heart, and with all his soul, to perform the words of the covenant which are written in this book.
32 And he caused all that were present in Jerusalem and Benjamin to stand to it. And the inhabitants of Jerusalem did according to the covenant of God, the God of their fathers.
33 And Josiah took away all the abominations out of all the countries that pertained to the children of Israel, and made all that were present in Israel to serve, even to serve the Lord their God. And all his days they departed not from following the Lord, the God of their fathers.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
Matthew 19:4-9
4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?
8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery
Ephesians 6
1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
2 Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise;
3 That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.
4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord
1 John 4:7-10
7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
9 In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him.
10 Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
John 13:34-35
34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
Always be willing to love Forgive and have mercy on one another
Love Forgive and have mercy on one another as I love forgive and have mercy on you.
Do not hate, but continue to hold your love for them, Same as our messiah for us. Love them and pray for them
Forgive – even when it hurts.
To Be Continued. . .
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To The Praise & Honour Of Our Righteous Creator & Redeemer
Challenge for you. Find someone who speeks Greek or Latin and ask them what each of the names of the seven days of the week are called in their Greek / Latin language and the meaning of that name. From the first day of the week to the seventh day of the week.