Imagine your a woman married to a wonderful loving caring man who swept you off your feet. You were in a loving relations with him and he loved you so much. Think of this man who loved you so much that he left his home country to go to your impoverished country full of corruption and Violence and lies just so he could have you as his wife because he loved you so much and to always be with you.
Then imagine that you lied about him, lied to him, blasphemed his name everywhere you went to everyone you met. You lied about him and pushed him away and you wanted nothing to do with him. You only used him for what you could get out of him. Then left him and abandon him and said all sorts of false evils against him.
This is exactly the relations we all have with. We think we better than anyone else and we think we know how people should act and respond to how you think and not to the reality of how they think.