Was just watching a story where a boy liked a girl and that girl liked that boy. However unbeknown to all the older brother of the boy was dating the older sister of the girl.
The younger boy was pondering to get some flowers and ask the girl out, while at the same time the girl was drawing a picture of the boy she liked.
The older brother came to pick up his younger brother and asked him to take him to get some flowers to the girl he liked so he could ask her out.
Unfortunately the older brother was not as considerate to females as was his younger brother. He instructed his younger brother to ignore the girl and be mean to her in order to show she is liked and to set who is boss in the relationship. Confused the young impressionable young man followed the advise of his much older brother. The following day the girl with 3 of her friends went up to the boy and gave the boy the picture she was drawing of him, the boy pondered what to say or do in accordance to what his older brother had said, and then proceeded to publicly shame her and tease her.
The girl ran away crying with shame of what has happened. The girls older sister came and saw her younger sister was crying and ashamed and asked her what was wrong, she told her older sister what had happened and her older sister told her that this only means that he likes her ( BAD ADVICE ).
When at home the young boy is with his older brother and again his older brother tells his younger brother to ignore the girl and to be mean to the girl so that she would be nicer to him ( ONCE AGAIN BAD ADVICE ).
The following day the boy was mean to the girl again by going out of his way to bully her and then ask her out on a date, to which the girl accepts the invite ( WARNING – IF THEY ARE MEAN TO YOU – RED FLAGS TO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH SUCH A PERSON ).
On the date the young boy and young girl are together when their respective older siblings come and they all realise that the 2 brothers are dating the 2 sisters. The older brother continues to disrespect and be cruel to the older sister. The older sister seems to accept as thats how boys are and thats what you are to accept, while the younger sister does not appear to be as sure.
They go to a restaurant and again both brothers continue to disrespect and insult the girls. The younger brother following in the footsteps of the older brother. The older sister accepts the insults as though she is as how the older brother describes her, while the younger sister is confused about the situation. The younger brother although following his older brothers instructions – he is not as sure about the situation as what his older brother is.
The following day the older sister is again insulted by the older brother, and moments later another guy shows kindness and consideration to the older sister by remembering her birthday and giving her a gift she likes, then he is insulted and disrespected by her 2 other friends.
Later the same day the younger brother continued to be mean to the younger sister and harm her physically and humiliate her publicly. Unfortunately the girl put up with it without any complaint, even when called up about it by their school teacher.
The teacher calls the girl aside and ask why is she always covering for the boy when he is always mean to her, to which she says that her older sister said that the reason he is mean to her is because he likes her.
The teacher later then pulls the 2 girls aside to try and set them straight about how a male should and should not treat a female.
The older sister totally brush off everything the teacher says and leaves, while the younger sister follows behind.
The next scene the older brother is with the older sister, and the older brother is being totally disrespectful and mean to the girl, even to the point of physically assaulting her.
The older sister eventually is able to get home and go to her younger sister and show her the bruises on her body that the older brother had caused. Next moment the younger brother gets a text message from the younger sister saying she no longer wants to talk to him any more because he is mean and she deserves better.
The younger brother is totally confused as he was doing everything his older brother had told him about how he gets girls and could not understand why she is now no longer wanting to talk to him any more.
He goes to his older brother confused about the text message and what he is supposed to do, the next moment there is a knock at the door and the police arrest the older brother for assaulting the older sister and takes him away, leaving the younger brother totally confused and beside himself.
The following day the younger brother is at school and with a bouquet of flowers and meets up with the younger sister and tells him that his older brother was the one who was messing with his head and he is sorry for what he did and shares what his true thoughts and feelings were, and gives her the bouquet of flowers and confesses his feelings for her. They embrace.
The older sister seeing what had happen with her younger sister then goes to the other guy who gave her the gift earlier on and arranges to go on a date with him.
The Love Story
Do not settle for someone who is going to be always mean or inconsiderate of you. Do not settle for someone who will always be mean to you.
Find someone who you could settle down with and who you could love and cherish and spend the rest of your life with.
Find someone who will love and cherish you, someone who will look at you as someone who is beautiful just the way you are, find someone who will love to be with you and spend time with you and complement you.
Look for someone who they would willingly treat you like a prince / princess, who will randomly just give you gifts and things you like. Someone who will tell you that they love you and show you with their actions also.
Find someone who would be willing to cook you food, do your laundry, buy you gifts of things you like, help and encourage you in your endeavours, help and assist you when you need it.
Do they make you breakfast in bed ? do they share in paying for bills and groceries, do they take you on trips and journeys together, ask you questions to see what you would like and invite your input.
Are you their queen to their king, or are you their king to their queen ? Do they enjoy spending time with you and opening up to you about anything that they maybe concerned about, or are they an ear to listen to your stories ? Do they share all their secrets with you and still love and embrace you and treat you like royalty ?
Find someone who will continually think and have on their mind, what can I do to bless you, instead of, what can I do to control and dominate you.
Look for someone who will complement your looks, complement you on your singing, help and encourage you on your goals.
Like when Paul said in the Bible that he would gladly spend and be spent on you. To the extent that there is nothing they would not do for you, if you were willing. Like the Messiah said he would love to love and embrace you, surround you with love and protection, but most like lies and hatred.
You are beautiful, you are very special, you are one of a kind, you are unique, you are someone to be loved, you are someone to be treated special, you are someone’s beloved child, you are someone worthy of respect, you are someone worthy of praise, you are someone worthy of commendations, you are worthy of respect and honour. As we said earlier, you are beautiful the way you are and loveable.
You are more valuable than many thousands of dollars, you are more beautiful and desirable than the greatest mansion with the finest artwork and creative designs.
Just imagine someone who loves you so much just because you are you and nothing else, Just imagine someone wanting to be by your side, Just imagine someone would give everything just to be with you, Just imagine someone who would do everything and anything to protect you and to provide for you, Just imagine someone who would do absolutely anything for you, Just imagine someone who has the upmost respect and honour for you, Just imagine to someone you are the most beautiful and the most treasured and the most desired thing on earth. Just imagine someone would willingly and gladly spend 45 minutes to prepare you a breakfast meal for that you would eat in less than 4 minutes. Just imagine someone who would willingly travel 1 hour in both directions at night just to get you something you would need for tomorrow. Just imagine who would gladly wash and dry your clothes all by hand. Just imagine someone who would willingly lay down their life for you.
You need not imagine any longer, as there is someone who would gladly fulfil this role for you in your life, and would gladly travel to the ends of the earth and back just to be by your side.
You are loved, treasured, beautiful, fearfully and wonderfully made.